besides all that, his wife has told my SILs what going on, (her side) and of course they blabbed it all the my husbands whole family and that upsets me. my MIL is not a good listener, she is just a talker who acts like she knows all and is always right. so i cant go to them as family who will listen!
how do i deal with all this cuz its tearing me apart. i feel lost and i relize there is nothing i can do but be supportive. but its killing me inside
I wish this was kept as a private family matter, but thats not possible because of my in-laws. so am i crazy??How to deal and cope with a divorce in family?
Let them know this is your brother, you're taking his side and you don't want to hear any of their bullshit about....he said...she said.How to deal and cope with a divorce in family?
good advise don't respond to any gossip because people add to the story.
If your brother loves her that much and wants to get her back he needs to stop acting like a wimp women are attracted to strong men he should act like he does not care and act like he has moved on it will not be long before she is running back to him.
We cannot control what other people say or do. Everyone lives their own lives as they see fit.
Perhaps your brother can be convinced to go to counseling or therapy. It takes ';two to tango'; in a marriage; and chances are both he and his wife had problems and handled them badly.
As for you, take care of yourself. What will you gain by being miserable and torn over things you have no control over?
I understand you love your brother; but he is an adult and he has to learn to deal with things. Everything in life has a price; and if he made bad decisions he must now pay the price.
Try to get him to seek professional help. Good luck.
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