How Do I Make My Fathers Mistress Walk Away?

The Problem is that my father won't leave her I have already had to cope with a divorce before and our family is breaking apart. I have already sent the woman text messages telling her what she is doing and asking her to leave us alone (with nothing explicit). I just don't know what to do anymore as the marriage was perfect. Its been 3 months the affair has been occuring and I only found out in the last few days. Please give me some advice.How Do I Make My Fathers Mistress Walk Away?
I'm sorry you're upset about the breakdown in your parents marriage. Your mother and father are two individuals, apart from being your parents, and have different needs that need to be met by the other partner. It takes two to make a relationship work, and obviously there is something wrong in the marriage that is making it go wrong,hence your father's need to find a mistress. However, that is between your parents. Your mother will always be your mother, and your father always your father. You do not have to have loyalty to one over the other, nor blame one over the other : understand them as people and dont involve yourself in their emotional issues, however difficult it may be not to. It's not the other woman's fault; if your father is not happy in his marriage it could be any other woman, not this particular one.





Like parents want their children to be happy, children should also be glad when their parents are happy. Maybe your father is happy now. Support your mother if she needs you there. It will take time, but resist the temptation to want to control things because you see them in a certain way. Good luck.How Do I Make My Fathers Mistress Walk Away?
Heh...don't delusion yourself with your naiveness. Your parents marriage was not perfect, hense the man going off and cheating on your mom.





Face it, the guy is a loser who needs approval by women that he's attractive, thats how insecure he is of himself.





There's nothing you can do, stay out of it. Let the parents work it out, they're the ones messing up.
Heres the thing. Perfect marriages don't result in affairs. There's something in the marriage that isn't meeting his needs.





Sadly, as much as you love him, it's none of your business and only he and his wife can sort this out.





Tell him you know, tell him you won't interfere, tell him if anyone asks you won't lie. Tell him he's breaking your heart.





thats all you can do.
This is not your battle to fight. Stay right out of it and if your mum is still with your dad, you just be supportive of your mother. If you don't, you will end up saying or doing something that you will regret. Don't worry, your father and his bit on the side will get what is coming to them, eventually.
I feel for you a great deal. You can not make her go away you need to talk to your father and have him explain himself. Without knowing your age and more details about your situation it is hard to give advice. You need to be there for your mother and ask to see a counselor
Tell your father that he is acting immature by treating your mother like this. Tell him that you are going to tell your mom. You mom deserves to know. You mom and dad need to work this out. Your dad isn't going to stop if he isn't caught.
There's really nothing that you can do. Both of them area adults and fully aware of what they're doing. Unfortunately, you have to stay out of it.
Does your farther know you know maybe you should let him know how you feel and how his indiscretions are affecting your life and your opinion of men.
Only thing you can do is talk with your dad. You can not get in the middle of it.
maybe you need to express your father how you feel..but how much it helps depend on your father...
Tell your mom. Someone will be walking away!
Beat her ***!