Coping up with divorce?

please i really need help. my boyfriend is a divorce. until now he is suffering from the trauma of it.


he cancelled our wedding coz according to him he is not yet ready.


how can i help him overcome this feelings.Coping up with divorce?
you should back off and let him work it out.you don;t wanna be a rebound wife.and you don't want him blaming you for pushing him into anything.just let him know your here for him your not going anywhere and that you understand .he'll come around and you will not be looked at as anything but the supportive loving gal you are good luckCoping up with divorce?
Give him time? It would sound funny but yeah, give yourselves more time. Assure him with care, concern and lots of love everyday. Because he has a bad time with marriage, try to understand him and stay by his side as a confidante and a very good friend. He needs your love and support. Be patient and God bless. Good luck.
You can't. He just needs time and assurance. Maybe he is afraid that your marriage will also end in divorce. All you can do is love him and wait for him to change his mind.
You must really sit down and have a good chat with him, to boost his confidence again... You must shower him with more love, to prove to him that not all marriage will fails.





Perhaps send him fr counselling.
You can't do anything but give him time.
I don't think you can do a lot to effect his feelings about the divorce. Where you have a great advantage is that guys who have been married really don't want to be alone for long.


Good luck
You can't. It takes time for anyone to get over a divorce. I think longer for men than women. My husband said he never wanted to get married again. I believed in his love and gave him the time he needed. He may have tried to rush a marriage with you because he thought that's what you wanted. Be patient with him, love him, support him, be there for him. Remember marriage is only a piece of paper, a very important piece of paper, you will get it when he is ready. My husband and I have been together for 12 years and my husbnd still has problems with his ex. If you're going to be with him u have to accept that his ex is a part of his life. Unfortunatly you can't kill her.