I need tips on how to cope with a divorce ?

we have been together for 5 years. and six days ago he said he did not love me anymore, like he should anyway. so he has made it clear and is activly going for a divorce and i am still immensely in love with him and i think i need to move on if he says im not the one anymore, i just dont know how to do it i feel like i am going do die.I need tips on how to cope with a divorce ?
Sounds like this hit you hard. Sounds like you didnt know it was coming. They have support groups for divorce people. Try going out and doing something for yourself thats make you feel good, and dont blame yourself.I need tips on how to cope with a divorce ?
Try to talk to him when you are not sad and can control your feeling, and he the same.


ask him why? you have right to know what happend that he changed his mind? what went wrong?


and try to see if that is anything that you can fix or not and if he is willing to try fix it or not. if he is agree go ro a marriage adviser





and if there is No way to get back, it is going to be hard but you can do it. I know my friend with achild went throught it .


but she did it





if you can change everyhting you used to share and change your apartment and even city


it is hard to walk thourhg old memories





get a new life and I am sure happiness is waiting for you but now it is hard for you to see it





Good Luck
The undefinable ache of a heartbreak.


It is heartbreaking when your feelings aren't shared.....


Well, if he has made the decision, most likely there isn't much that you can do...


So I suggest you seperate with as little friction as possible....It's not you. It's the ecstacy that was lost in the relationship....He couldn't get it up every time and because he is having a good time with Tracy he thinks that she is the cure.....He would find out in one month when he finds that she is having fun with Joey too...


You have nothing to worry about....Now in your next relationship you'ld want to learn how to keep his esteem of him self up and how to get him up when he feels he's dead...If you haven't read my blog.
Get right back on the horse and ride until you're sore. Give me a call if you need help.
Sweet heart is there any words that can help right now??? I don't think there is, I think you probably feel like you can't breath. Its got to be the hardest thing to deal with.





If you have kids you can gets some comfort from them. Keep in touch with your family it will help. You have to talk to somebody who understands.





Your are going to go threw a rollar coaster of emotions and feeling, you may want to hold the angry feeling for a little while DON'T let it change your personnalitly though


you do what ever it takes to get threw each day one day at a time. You need to remind yourself all the time I WILL BE OK. Be positive and try to find something that will keep your mind busy. If you want to talk I would like you to email me. I will be glad to help. I'm a good listener and beleive I can help. Just add to my screen name @yahoo.com.





Either way good luck better day are closer then you know.
I have been through one and felt the same way. Time is the only thing that can heal this type of pain. Just try to keep your head up and find happiness within yourself.
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It's hard to deal with someone who doesn't love you when you are still in love with them. Think about this...You deserve to be with someone who is as equally in love with you as you are of them. It will take a lot of time...but you will heal