Monday, August 9, 2010

Having a hard time coping with divorce... :(?

it was about a month ago that my hubby of 3 years told me that he doesn't want to be with me anymore (we've been together 6 years). He said he ';still loves me'; but he's just not happy with me.


I am heartbroken. We have an 11 month old son together. I don't know how to sort my feelings, or move on with my life. And I'm just trying so hard to keep it together for my son.


How do I cope? :(Having a hard time coping with divorce... :(?
Dear HollyBeauty,





I'm sorry to hear that you are getting a divorce.


And just to let you know YOu need to for get it. There was signs that you guys were growing apart a long time ago. Come on now you can't say you didn't see it coming.


And to try to stay in it because of the kids is just not a reason to keep it. I know that you love him but its time to just let it go. I mean its to late he already said he doesn't want to be with you just let it ride and find somebody else to go out with. The next time you find someone find someone who is worth being with you and who want s to tuff it out. I mean that man promised to the day that he died that he would stick with you till the day that he died. and guess what he didn't. So He need to go.Having a hard time coping with divorce... :(?
It sucks and some days are better then others you need to work on yourself ike Work out, volunteer go back to school etc.





I joined a young womens group at my church I started volunteering working out and gettin more involved with life outside of my marriage and what I knew. It gets to the point you need to stand up say it sucks its hard but life goes on and its time to make the best of it.
Let him go...I fought that for 2 YEARS, only to finally find out there was someone else...who he married 2 weeks after he was eligible to do so. (we were married 24 years)


Just take one day at a time, spend extra time with your son, and with family %26amp; friends. And hang in there- there is life after this. I met and married a wonderful man 3 years ago!
i'm so sorry to hear this


i hope everything is ok


i know it's hard being a single mum as i was a single dad my first wife just walked out on us and we havnt heard since


Just focus on being a good mom your turn will come one day and someone nice will really make it all worth while

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