How to cope with my divorce?

I found out my wife has been having an affair for quite a while now. She had me removed from my house so her boyfriend could move in with her and my kids, so they could consummate their relationship. I love her so much and want to work out our problems but she wont say a word to me%26lt; we have been together for 7 yrs and 4 of that is married. i haven't been to my house in over a month because of a bs ex-parte. im trying so hard to let her go but i just cant get her out of my head, and im starting to lose my mind.How to cope with my divorce?
Well you need to move on. If you can't cope with this on your own there are support groups and such to help you. Life is to short spending it crying over something you lost. Is tough is it is you have to move on.How to cope with my divorce?
Sometimes the cure to a broken heart is finding love in other places, I dont necessarily mean rushing into another long term relationship just try to casual date, show yourself that there is alot of beautiful things in this world and kind hearts, such that would not be deceitful and have an affair. However it does concern me that you have not gone to your house, I worry about your kids, Make sure they know they have a father that loves them, Divorce's are difficult on children also, and for me PLEASE never try to make the children choose sides, they deserve both a loving mother and father.
Since all this came as a surprise to you ..you have to be strong and build up your self from scratch.


get into action again...start looking after yourself and join some activity and gyming..look good and see what went wrong and try not to do that again...usually women goes out to look for love and attention which men forget to give over the epriod of time in a marriage...look we all have needs...Sooner or later you will find that perfect someone and then everything wil make sence to you...dont be surprise if you ex will confess to regreting bringing tha new fella to marital home at first place..
Pursue a support group, but consider that your wife changed. She isn't the woman you loved and married. I hope she doesn't screw your kids up with what she has done. If possible, be there for your kids and help them through the transition. She's a lost cause and a weak person, or she would have been honest with you.
She removed you and replaced you with her boyfriend with the children in the house. What is she thinking. She is going full speed isn't she? It's sad to say this but you need to try very hard to forget her. You might not be able to salvage the marriage but remember what is in between you guys are the children she can separate from you wife but not your children. Depending of who is the best parent, make a decision who the children will be with. If with you (she will have to pay child support).





Good Luck,





Baby~
You know what ... its still a man's world. Let your x go. There's plenty of eye candy out there and all you need to do is go fishing. Guys choose the girl. That's all you need to do. If it makes you feel any better I was burned by a guy who had a fiance who was seeing me on the side. See what I mean?





A nice, loanly beautiful woman out there is waiting for you to show her some affection.
Divorce is always tough when you have children and even harder to not be angry when your partner violated the vows of marriage. Unfortunately this is the way the law is set up to be an advantage for women. Financially your life will be really hard on you while she has the house, the kids,%26amp; happiness with her new lover. All you can do is focus on being a good dad to your children and let time heal your wounds. Surround yourself with friends and family,focus on what is most important(kids) in your life. Don't jump into another relationship until you are completely over being screwed. You have to realize that with all that she is doing to you how evil she is. You cant love someone who doesn't love you back! I have seen %26amp; heard about so many men getting screwed in my lifetime that I know that I will NEVER be getting married again. The law may say on thing but,we all have to answer for what we have done on judgment day.