How to cope with divorce? Please advise?

I am seriously considering in filing for divorce. I think that I have been avoiding this situation, because I do not want to suffer. I am 25 years old and been married for several years. How could I best avoid depression?How to cope with divorce? Please advise?
So here's the deal: If you're at the point where you're considering divorce, then you have to realize that your life will be unbearable hell if you stay with him.





To keep from getting depressed, just keep your mind focused on how your life will be better and happier after he is no longer a part of it. Think about what you can do now, how you will enjoy yourself that you couldn't before, how the suffering the relationship caused you will end.





If you're really ready to leave, then it won't be as hard as you're thinking it will be.





Sometimes I see a guy after he gets divorced, and he has a celebration. ';She signed the paper! She signed the paper!';





';She got the house, she got the car, she got the dog, she got the retirement account.';





';But she signed the paper! It's over!';





And it's hard to understand.





It's hard to understand for people who aren't really ready to leave.





If you hate your spouse, but you're still fighting, then you're not ready to leave. If you hate your spouse, but you're afraid to be lonely or you'll miss the good times, then you're not ready to leave. If you hate your spouse, but you really want to stick it to him or her, then you're not ready to leave.





You're ready to leave when you reach the point that the only thing of value in the world is having your spouse go away.





When you reach that point, you'll know.





He / she wants the house? Fine.





He / she wants the car? Fine.





He / she wants the money and the dog and the furnature and the vacation timeshare in hawaii? Fine.





He / she wants you to cut off your own leg and shove it up your *** and hop for the rest of your life? Fine. Just as long as it makes him / her go away.





When you reach that point, then you're ready for a divorce.








Now you know the truth. Hope that helps.How to cope with divorce? Please advise?
A divorce is a very hard thing to do for both the husband and wife. You didn't mention why you want to divorce. Either way, you should consider marriage counseling before you make that decision. Even if the other half doesn't want to go, you can still do it alone. You will get much better advice from a counselor than from here.
divorce amiably so that the lawyers do not take all your hard earn money. put your difference aside, and be happy that you both will soon be free. celebrate the freedom . so that you can move on with your life.





good luck. my ex and i did not even use lawyers, we divide the money and went each other way.


again, see it as a celebration of your freedom. do not hold anger or bad feelings,(baggage) as that will only hinder you from ever being able to find a new loving relationship


really do not be depressed , see it as a good thing. you will prevail. you both have to prevail so that you both can move on. if one of you stays angry you both will suffer. why suffer to spite the other


after all you once loved each other. the best thing to do is remain civil for your own peace of mind. share on more bottle of champagne and part ways. be grown up about it.


good luck
Are you bored, hon?


You want to get a divorce just because he was out


until 4;00AM....Come on, girl!





Gotta shed some more info on teh situation.
http://www.gospelway.com/family/divorce_鈥?/a>


please read this all and take a decision. please print a copy to him also.
have a decent peaceable divorce then have lots of casual sex
find a CODA meeting and learn to love yourself..good lucky honey.you are worth it.