How do you cope with divorce without support?

I do not have any friends and family. My wife left me after having an affair with a co-worker. I do not know where to turn to. I haven't stopped hurting. The best I know how is to hide it. But my pistol has been looking more friendly as time passes. How do you cope with divorce without support?
You need to get some help.. I'm assuming you don't have many friends because you don't get out much. There is truly an amazing life ahead of you if you choose that path. Breakups/divorces are hard and I'm so sorry you had to go through that especially for the reasons you did leaving you no choice but people do it every day and end up happy. You WILL find a great woman, better than your ex wife who will love you as you are and think only of you. I truly wish you all the happiness in the world. :) Best of luck to you.How do you cope with divorce without support?
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I'm really sorry. I don't think you should hide at all. Your probably a wonderful man. Why don't you go out and find another wonderful women! Start going out in public. Also, what I did to cope with a broken heart was I went sky diving and many crazy things like that. I love to be in public and sing as loud as I can. I think you'd feel better if you knew you were getting attention from the opposite sex. Go and find someone. It'll make you feel better. Also, try a social networking like myspace, facebook etc. You can make many friends on there.





You may also consider going to a therapist. It may sound cheesy but that helped me so much. They are like your friend and you can tell them anything.





I hope this helps and I hope you feel better.





Good luck. = )
It's going to take time. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you! When I went through my divorce, none of my families lived close to me. Try getting involved in anything! That's what I did! I asked people I worked with to have dinner or just hanging out. I started to go to anything that I was invited to. I know men and women's social circle are different but just keep your mind busy! I started a myspace page and eventually posted a yahoo personals. From there I IM peopled for fun at first and eventually met my new finance. Try to be strong! She's not worth it and your life is much more important!
get yourself some help. i know this has hurt you. my boyfriend of five years left me. so i know the pain that you are in. and he wen-ted back to his x.and yes i am Still very hurt over this.but i am not going to take my life over it. i am just going to pray and move on. because when the devil close one door. god will open more.pray and ask god to help you. he can do anything but fail.this has help me.and i am still hurt.but i am feeling better day by day.god bless you. and please don't hurt yourself. are anyone elsa. go get help. and pray. hope you the best. pounch.
Time heals all wounds. Killing yourself isn't the answer, because there's a Heaven and a Hell. You don't want to kill yourself and not be ready. Maybe it's time to realize Jesus is the answer. He died for your sins, and if you seek Him, you will truly find Him. Surrender to the Lord! He will heal your heart and fill you with hope. Nothing in this pitiful life is worth killing yourself over. I've been homeless for four years, and now I'm not homeless for four years. I once slept on cold street corners, and now I sleep in a real bed. Trust me, dude! Life is tough, but it's short, too. Don't kill yourself, because you'll be gone before you know it anyway.





If she cheated on you, she wasn't worth it anyway. Go do something fun. Women are trouble. I've been divorced twice. When I had no one, only Jesus was there for me. No one else will be there when you lose it all but Jesus. Trust me. I'm living proof He exists. I was a cocaine addict and an alcoholic. I became Born Again, and I never did drugs or drank again. I don't got to any support group either. Jesus did it all. He changed me. Forever. And He can change you, too. Forever.
you find a hobby to occupy your time, and if you need to vent your feelings to a friend but can't, try writing it down instead, you can come back to it later and read things you wrote in the past and reflect on your changes, good or bad, and move on.
Please don't kill yourself. You're better than that. Find a church in your area. Even if you aren't a religious person, a minister or a priest might be able to comfort you and help mend that broken heart. I wish you the best of luck.
You need to see someone. Alot of people see going to a psych is for psycho people. Not true. You Need someone to talk to. some support. It will get better. Just hold your head up and you will see the light!
Have you tried looking in your local newspaper for any divorce support groups? Sometimes churches advertise support groups.





I've been their. It gets easier. Take care.
please get some help you are not alone and there ae groups for people who have gotten divorce try you are worth it hang in there god bless
You just get through one day at a time. Just keep going, things will get better. Keep busy.