Monday, August 9, 2010

How do you cope with divorce parents?

How do you cope with your divorced parents? What helps you get through it? Kids question only, or for parents. What happens? How hard is it?


The answers should be as if they were givin as advice to kids who are dealing with this problem!!!!





I also have divorced rents, so i can relate!How do you cope with divorce parents?
I think the best thing you can do is let them know to stand by their friends have some support in there lives. Let them know that just because their parents are split up doesn't mean it was there fault or that they love them anyless. It really just means that they did not want to be with them anymore that they no longer had the feelings for them they once had. It will be hard for the first few months and especially if they start to date other people again. You just need to be understanding that this is reality that things like this happen to


you in life and that you just have to keep yourself busy and find things that make you happy.





Life has it's up's and downs and you never know when they will happen. Divorce is tragic and hurts but it happens and really they are better off having parents in seperate households then having parents that fight all the time.





That when they get older and have a spouse of their own and maybe even divorce one day they will realize that life is too short to be unhappy and that is why many people divorce because they are no longer happy with their mates.








When they get older talk to the parents and ask them why they broke up sometimes kids are not wise enough to figure this out and many parents will explain to their kids when they get older.





Keep your friends close do not pick sides love each of your parents equally and do not allow them to use you to torture the other person.





God Bless and Best Wishes and all the luck for you paper.How do you cope with divorce parents?
Well, i went through it. I saw my parents go through it, but then they got back together... the main reason was because my dad was on drugs, and my mom found out... then he claimed that he was better... but he was only doing worse. He moved back in, and my sister found him shooting up in the bathroom. I have witnessed everything. My dad even hit my mom at one point. I thought my dad was such a great guy... and then I saw his true colors. The thing that helped me deal with the most was I went to my school counselor. She was great. She let me know that it wasn't my fault... which I thought it was at first... but its not. Try your hardest to get through it. Are you going to live with you mom or your dad? Either parent you live with... be strong for them. They are going through alot to.
I'm 18 and my parents have been divorced for going on a year. and i simply let them do whatever they wanted, i just stayed out of it! It's not my problem!
';Your parents decided it was better to live in seperate houses. But they still love you tons and tons. Just now you get to see them one at a time. ';
people are resilient- you make do..you survive and you move on with life. it's not like u have a choice, you just do.
you are under 16 aren't you?





you should be in class

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