Monday, August 9, 2010

How do families cope with divorce?

my cousin, summer, lived with her single mother, megan, until she was three. her father had passed away before she was born. then aunt megan married again. her second husband was a man named chris, who has a daughter named tia. tia`s mother died when she was only four monthes old. tia is two years older than summer. after the wedding, the two girls bonded and loved eachother like real sisters. aunt megan and uncle chris decided to adopt eachother`s children. they got along great. they loved their new family. now summer is eleven and tia is thirteen. their parents had been fighting a lot recently and they have decided to get divorced! what is going to happen to summer? she loves her dad and sister and she doesn`t want to lose them. summer and tia are both really upset. how can they be helped?How do families cope with divorce?
Well, they adopted each other's children, so they are legal parents to these children. They will have to pay child support. I know someone that this has happened to, he is paying support for the child, he adopted. The girls need to make it known that they don't like the parents fighting in front of them. I don't think highly of my soon to be ex., my kids know I don't care for him (because they asked if I still love him and I said no), but I don't fight with him in front of them. The girls need to tell their parents that they were raised as sisters and they want to be in each other's lives, they want to have visitation with each other. And, if I were them, I'd get the lawyers names, on both sides and convey this message to them both lawyers, if it comes to a divorce. Good luck to them. My kids are fine with our divorce. These girls will be fine too, when their parents stop fighting!How do families cope with divorce?
Hopefully the parents will realize that they are both being selfish, and apologize to eachother, before it is too late.


However if the parents do divorce let's hope they will be mature, and responsible and continue to love both of the children and both parents will share equally the responsibilities and the sisters will continue to have a positive relaitonship
Facts are. Parents should not have to be miserable just to pacify the kids. AS long as the kids are taken care of they need to do what the parents deem is best.I have a daughter and I dont think I owe it to her to be with her Dad if this falls apart. I owe her to take care of her. If her Dad makes me miserable, I should not have to be miserable for her. I should take care of her.
You know, just like all the other broken families.





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Need I say more. Divorce is not the answer as it destroys families for generations.
If only couples would try harder to love each other more!





Divorce effect familys immensely
you guys are adopted,you don,t loose anyone.you speak to your parents where you will live and tell them your feelings.don,t let anything fall apart.this is mom and dad moving on,they still love both of you
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