I've already been down your road... my parents are literally going through the divorce right now, in 1 month the papers get finalized and I have a divorced mom %26amp; dad. If it does happen where they get divorced, then fate was meant to be like that. You can't really change it, but just keep loving them both. And they'll loveyou back, they probably gave a lot of thought about you and how it would affect your life... but they chose what's best for everyone. In my case I thought they didn't care about me or what I thought, and I still do. But now there is some small conscious that's telling me maybe the divorce was better for us, my older brohter doesn't seem to care, but me being 14 I was so emotinally killed by this. It was hard to leave my old house,(you'll most likely move too) but you learn to get along and deal with the problems in life. I just recently got a fortuen cookie that said ';don't sweat it. With every negative in life, there will always be a positive';
-I figure that this means, if this divorce is to happen when I'm young, than something good would happen in my future, like maybe I have a very good paying job
It may not be fair, but than again life isn't
-All the best with your situationHow to cope with a divorce ?
it is extremely hard to hear this kind of things. Sometime people get cought up on the small things and that is the whole problem. You can try to easy up the tension by talking to both of them and expressing how much you love them and would love for them to work out there diffrences. Also sometimes on or the other have something on the side and this is why thney dont see eye to eye with there spouse
theres never a right answer to cope w/a situation like this continue to love them both dont ever stop they have to work this out for themselves
im sorry that ur caught in t/middle sweetie i no its goin to b hard for u to focus on sumthin else but u will have to find sumthin else to focus on writing,music maybe counselor from school
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